Support your clients

holistically

with the expertise + partnership of a sexuality specialist

Why partner with a certified

sexuality educator + coach?

Sexuality is a lifelong part of the human experience. Yet, most of us were never given the information, support, or space to identify how to move through this part of our lives with confidence and joy.

In fact, in a survey of 1,500 Americans ages 18 to 44, 90% of respondents said that their sex education had not prepared them for real-world sexual experiences.

With a Sexuality Specialist in your corner,

  • You get to use your hour with clients to focus on the deep healing work, knowing that the nuts and bolts of sexuality exploration and sex education are happening in their sessions with The Dress Rehearsal.

  • Clients coming to you already know they want to work on sex, but that is rarely the only thing going on for them. Having a sexuality professional checking in on them with a laser focus on their sex-related concerns can keep things moving for clients in multiple areas of their lives (and make sure they aren't using the other issues to avoid working on their sexual concerns)!

  • Homework follow up can fall by the wayside. Their coaching sessions with The Dress Rehearsal offers tailored resources and homework, with dedicated time in session to problem-solve barriers. This improves follow-through on their part, leading to better therapeutic outcomes).

Enter:

Veronica Dress, CSE

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As an AASECT certified sexuality educator and certified coach, Veronica provides comprehensive sexuality education and coaching to individuals, partners, and clinicians seeking to create a sex-positive practice.

Our experiences of sexuality and intimacy are varied and nuanced. As a result, the topics covered in a coaching or education session with Veronica might surprise you! Often, individuals and partners focus on overcoming sexual obstacles associated with: religious trauma, communication, initial sexual experiences, queer identity exploration, unlearning sexual shame, pleasure exploration, and desire + boundary self-understanding and discrepancies, to name a few.

Using a biopsychosocial approach and drawing from more than a decade of work in trauma-responsive sexual health education, Veronica collaborates with clients and their providers to improve sexual satisfaction.

How can we

work together?

  • “Veronica is an incredible resource. On several occasions, I encountered a situation with a client that was outside my knowledge and expertise, and felt lost about what resources to provide my clients or where to begin learning to expand my own competence. Veronica was quick to provide the exact resources and information I needed. I trust that I can refer clients to her for trauma-informed sex and intimacy coaching, while I continue to work with them on other clinical issues.”

    -Jane Saffles-Granville, LCSW

  • “Sex and intimacy education was absolutely not a part of my graduate training, and it's really has required a lot of intentional learning and effort on my part. Like so many areas, I was a bit unsure where to start and where to find the affirming, consent centered education I was looking for. Consulting with Veronica, who is frankly brilliant in this area, has supported me in being able to process with and support my clients in these areas. She has also been an excellent resource in supporting therapists that I supervise, in providing incredibly valuable insight and information about how we can think about the impacts of intimacy and/or the lack thereof - from an inclusive and affirming lense.”

    -Erica Smith, MSW, LCSW

How is this different from therapy?

Great question! A lot of therapists absolutely support their clients in working toward their future goals, in addition to processing emotions and deep healing. Coaching can be the perfect complement to therapy. While you support your clients therapeutically, you can trust that their sex + intimacy coaching will be filled with trauma-informed + affirming education, goal-setting, and tangible, sustainable plans to reach their specific intimate goals.

Plus, An AASECT certification means you can trust that your clients are receiving sexuality education and coaching from The Dress Rehearsal that is up to date on the sexuality issues impacting your clients today, with a committment to continued education that supports them tomorrow. We love to learn!

A few more nuanced details:

  • Coaching is not a replacement for therapy (we aren’t mental health professionals!), but an awesome, subject-specific supplement. If self-discovery was a college course, coaching would be the lab! That is, a place to really get into the weeds of “how” to get to where you want to grow with a subject matter expert. Sexuality coaches provide tangible actions, offer creative thought partnership, and targeted work on sexuality goals and obstacles.

  • Coaches focus on the client’s present, their future goals, and collaborate on identifying tangible actions to get them there in sustainable, authentic ways. Coaches do not process emotions or trauma, but acknowledge them as important context.