Our sexualities, relationships, and lives are expansive and unique. So are my offerings! Whether its a coaching package that offers options for individuals and partners or a customizable educational workshop that offers a pleasure and rights-centered re-do of the shame-y sex education you might have gotten in your youth. Our relationship can be as tailor-made as the fringe jumpsuit I dream of.

But I digress. Details below!

Your sexuality

is one of a kind

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Sexual Shame + Stigma
Faith + Sexuality
Exploring Sexual Values
Introducing Kinks
Desire Discrepancies
Exploring Sexual + Gender Identities Sexual Health + Wellness

Topics My Clients Frequently Explore

Coaching is available for adults of all genders, sexualities, relationship structures, and statuses.

Cultivating Play + Pleasure
Coming Out
Building Sexual Self-Esteem
Communication
Embodiment + Presence Exploring Queer Identities Changing Relationship Structures

Coaching is a space where we can take all of your sexuality, relationship, and intimacy goals and get specific about how.

We get into the weeds of what you want, what is working, and what needs to shift to create a sex life filled with confidence and joy.

Sound a bit like therapy?

I hear you. To be fair, both involve talking back and forth with a professional who is focused on helping you– but here are some key differences (with the analogy beautifully provided by my colleague, Erika Davian):

Working with a therapist is like going to physical therapy.  They help you heal, process the context of the current moment, and support you in deep work to reach a place of health.  Therapists can give professional focus on the past and help you in integrating it into the present.

Working with a coach is like working with a personal trainer.  I make sure you stay focused, keep momentum going, and take yourself further than you thought was possible.  Coaching sometimes looks to the past, but often the focus is on the future, what you want, and how your actions in this moment can help you get there.

Doing it on your own is like getting a gym membership.  Maybe it works for you, but for many people it’s hard to stay motivated, stick to habits, and keep focused.  Reaching your goals will likely take longer than if you just worked with someone who could help.

Add in the complicated cocktail of sexual shame, misinformation, myths, and relationship “shoulds?” Getting a gym membership might feel like lifting weights with a snake as the barbell. Let’s try a different way.

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What is coaching, exactly?

Services + Pricing

Coaching should be accessible to all! The Dress Rehearsal offers a limited number of sliding scale coaching spots— inquire to see if any are available!

“I can't even begin to say how positive my experience was working with Veronica. Truly life-changing! I felt so accepted, affirmed, and empowered. I really appreciated having a safe space to explore vulnerable topics, and to be guided by very helpful and practical exercises, tools, or activities and questions!”

-coaching client

“My sessions with Veronica were extremely beneficial to my self-understanding in the areas of sex and intimacy! In so many ways, I've always felt "behind" or that I'm the only person who... (fill in the blank). Throughout our time together, I felt safe and free to bring up anything and to engage in conversations I've never really had before.”

-coaching client

“As a trans client Veronica understood the sometimes complex aspects of sex and intimacy without judgment or need for education. Veronica is the most personable and relaxing human I have had the pleasure of working with.”

-coaching client

Looking to build sex-positive community?

Maybe coaching doesn’t feel like the right fit right now. The Dress Rehearsal Studio’s online membership, Play Practice, is a private community where we remove sexual shame and replace it with creativity, curiosity, and play!

This is your home for all your education and shame-free, sex-positive community building at an accessible price!

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